Good luck to you, Leo Grande It is a movie about sex. This is only evident from the plot summary, which includes the escort of a young Leo Grande (Daryl McCormack), hired by a repressed middle-aged woman named Nancy Stokes (Emma Thompson) so he can bring her to an orgasm for the first time in her life. But with four accompanying sessions and an hour and a half running time Leo Grande It explores sex from all kinds of different angles: who expects to have it, is expected to want it, the way shame turns into oppression, the ways women are taught to fear and despise their sexuality, the way sex work is stigmatized, the way even clients Well-meaning people feel entitled to the life of a sex worker, and how some of the greatest pleasure comes from feeling comfortable in one’s own body. if Leo Grande Sometimes it has the feel of a public service announcement, especially in the last third of it, it’s a remarkably comprehensive and entertaining one, with a performance from Thompson that may be the best of her career.
There are parts of Leo Grande This does not seem entirely correct. The escort’s enlightened, semi-altruistic attitude toward sex, while charming, feels like a kind of relief in screenwriting, because the movie wouldn’t work if it was at all ambivalent toward its job. And while Nancy might be the kind of person to break into Leo’s privacy (unsurprisingly, Leo Grande isn’t his real name), she doesn’t seem like the kind of person who thinks talking to him would do nothing but provoke anger. for him. But the movie doesn’t have to be entirely accurate to be a correction, and when it comes down to it that’s what happens Leo Grande he is. They aim to counter the many stigmas surrounding sex work and older women, and they certainly succeed there. But along the way, perhaps without realizing it, Leo Grande It also serves as a correction to the ethos of our current cultural age.
A little over a year ago, a speculative fiction author named Raquel S. Benedict wrote an article titled “Everyone is beautiful and no one has horns‘where the asexuality of modern superhero films is lamented.’ Benedict argues that although a premium is placed on proper muscular bodies, the Marvel Cinematic Universe Absolutely chaste. These heroes are unimaginably beautiful people with bodies like Greek gods, usually dressed in clothes made of tight spandex, however, even characters who are supposed to have chemistry with each other trade numbly in banter and show, and not a single spark between them. One could argue that there are exceptions – Tessa ThompsonValkyrie, as well Jeff GoldblumBoth bring out what Benedict describes as “sexual energy” – but it’s hard to argue with her view that “the perfect bodies of these heroes exist solely for the purpose of inflicting violence on others”. sex scene in eternitywhich appeared after Benedict’s article and had his erotica charged with an embarrassing office fling, proved her point even further.
But it’s not just about superheroes. It has to do with the very unhealthy relationship that our bodies have adapted to. Benedict argues that the sexless landscape of pop culture reflects the bleak and futile reality of diet and exercise culture, which require rigorous discipline and training to achieve aesthetic beauty somewhat to its own advantage. Our bodies, then, are not for living or for pleasure, but for some mysterious purpose, where sex is merely a distraction. But even those who don’t do CrossFit try to set their fun and indulge in some kind of job. Eating your favorite foods is a reward for discipline elsewhere – hence your “cheat day.” Make-up is an expression of individual self-empowerment. Sex is healing, joyful, even radical—an act of resistance, really. But why do we give so much importance to these things when the only reason anyone needs it is to “feel happy?”
When Nancy Stokes first allows Leo Grande into her palatial, faceless room, she is entangled in a complex of insecurity. She is reflexively self-deprecating. She’s skeptical about the idea that anyone, especially someone like Leo, would find her attractive. She feels like a pervert, even a sex predator. She talks longingly about having an orgasm, but seems to have given in to the idea that she’ll never have one. Over the course of her marriage to her late husband, who was so vanilla he didn’t even like to receive it orally, her happiness was completely off topic, her body a means to an end. Why should it be different now, when she is literally paying someone to bring her fun? At the start of the second session, she comes prepared with an actual checklist of sexual practices, determined to get it all done in a couple of hours; She treats sex like spring cleaning, which is fun in theory but actually just another chore.
As the film continues, audiences learn more about Nancy and how she was severely repressed. She was a religious education teacher, but she had no direction or purpose in life that religion was supposed to provide. She has two children, a boy who bores her and a girl who frustrates her, she puts her dreams and ambitions aside for them, and doesn’t want to admit that she hates them for it. Her fondest sexual memories include meeting a waiter at a hotel overlooking the ocean, interrupted by the headlights of a passing car. Time and time again, she put off her desires, judged others for wanting the same thing, and judged herself for their own shortcomings many times.
essence Leo Grande Not whether Nancy finally reaches an orgasm, but How You get to it, and what happens next. The first orgasm of her life—the humble holy grail of complacency, the thing she’d wanted for years—didn’t happen because of anything Leo does to her. In fact, it happens to her hand, as she watches a naked Leo looking for a sex toy. Far from breaking down, it’s the only way this movie could end. Through an orgasm, Nancy learns that sex is not inherently shameful, intimidating, or perverted – nor is it inherently beautiful and enlightening. You learn that bodies don’t have to be small, sculpted, or toned to please someone. It’s just sex, and only bodies. And since she admires herself naked in the mirror at the end of the movie, she knows that’s all she needs.